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Nov. 15th, 2005 @ 11:26 pm help i'm going crazy here!!!
Current Mood: crazycrazy
i have a major question and hopefully someone can help me out because i really need it. well i had sex on saturday night (11-12) and my period is delayed it should have started on monday (11-14) and it's wednesday (11-16). i'm sacred that i might be pregnant because no i didn't use protection (i know stupid)

well we didn't use protection bc we were going to try the "other way" i know i know up the butt is gross but i didn't want to get pregnant and he didn't want to put a condom so anyways it hurt too much that way so we just did it the normal way and he pulled out and everything but i know that while ur doing it somethings he comes without evening knowing and i'm sacred that i could be pregnant

so if anyone has anything positive to tell me or a way to help me please help me!!! and please don't just tell me to going a test because i know i'm going this weekend
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Oct. 16th, 2005 @ 08:54 pm Sex Toys

That's right, I said it. Sex Toys.

Thankfully, adult toys are starting to come out of the closet, and I fully believe that every sexual adult should have his or her fair share. For the purpose of gender, I'm focusing on women for this post, but I'd love to hear input from males as well.

Sex toys are like cars -- go for the best you can afford, and they won't let you down with a little proper care. You can find psuedo vibrators almost anywhere nowadays (a vibrating hairbrush in Eckards? Who are you kidding?) but for the most part, these are crap, plain and simple.

The first thing to remember is -- the female body is capable of a great deal of pleasure, so it's a bit silly to think that there is One Magical Toy that will fullfill all needs and wants. While it may take a while, I recommend getting a decent stash for all sorts of situations.

Toys, toys, toys!Collapse )

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Oct. 14th, 2005 @ 02:05 pm ovulation scent
does anyone else notice a change in the smell down there when you ovulate? it always smell different to me when i do. it's not terribly gross, but not too pleasing either!
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Oct. 13th, 2005 @ 08:40 am Doggy style problems
My boyfriend can't seem to keep it up or ejaculate when we do it doggy style. He always ends up falling out and cursing because he says he feels like he's "so close". Any ideas about what could be causing this? Would something like a cock ring help at all? I hate thinking of having sex in just one position for the rest of my life...
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Oct. 12th, 2005 @ 11:22 pm Help?
Help, wtf is wrong?

I really need your opinion/help! I've been dating this guy who I'm deeply in love with for a year and some months now. We are very loving and affectionate, our friends think we're sappy and crazy for each other, we're just very much in love. But there's been a bit of a problem in our relationship-and that is that I, the girl, am more interested in sex than he is. Don't get me wrong, I have thought about it for a long time and I am sure he is not gay or anything like that...he just doesn't have as much of a sex drive as most men are supposed to, and doesn't have as much of a sex drive as I do. Trust me, as the woman in the relationship, it HURTS to be "rejected" for sex, because dammit, that's just not the way it ever happens in the movies. Lol. He is definitely not cheating on me, trust me on this one. He's not that kind of guy, he's very loyal and affectionate and I know he doesn't have the time to cheat besides, lol. No, he's not way more attractive than me and I'm not sex-crazed. I get a pretty decent amount of attention from other men, and I'm not desperate for attention or throwing myself at anyone. I think I have an actually pretty moderate to average sex-drive, which means that he is definitely, definitely on the low side of average! He explains this by saying how he's concerned that the relationship will become about lust, that he won't really love me if we have sex too much, that he prefers to snuggle, etc. etc. It has become more and more hurtful over time, especially because, I have to admit, he is a really, really good lover. Really really good, when he wants to be. Is this healthy or normal? Should I try to do anything to reconcile this, or is it unsolvable? Don't hold back...HELP, please...
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Oct. 11th, 2005 @ 02:59 pm Pelvic exam - fear and trepidation
Current Mood: scaredscared
Hello.. No real flowery way of going about this, so I'm just going to come right out and say it: I'm looking at the prospect of having a pelvic exam/pap smear done soon, and I am FUCKING TERRIFIED.

I'm both 18 and sexually active, which is the time they say that you're supposed to start having that done every year. I would let it slide if it weren't for the fact that I really want to finally get a prescription for brith control. My boyfriend and I use condoms, but, well... stuff happens, you know? We want to have kids someday, but definitely not any time soon, and I know I would be a lot happier if I knew I had something a little more dependable in my corner. But in order to do that, I'll have to become a new patient at a new doctor (I just turned 18 this year and have just graduated from the pediatrician), and they'll have to do that lovely Pap smear.

I've read all about the exam from various medical websites, and even the calm, medical, scientific descriptions they give make me want to cry. Opening me up so that the doctor, a stranger, can fit their HAND inside? Oh my dear sweet lord!

So.. I guess I know the mechanics of it (and they strike terror into my heart, and various other parts of me) but I know that the medical websites aren't giving me the whole story, here. I asked my older sister to give me a rating on a 1 - 10 scale of horror, and she only rated it at a 4, and gave me a brief description of what happens, which didn't sound all that bad. But I'm still very very freaked out about the whole prospect of someone sticking their darn hand in my vagina and poking around some of my internal organs. So, I guess I'm asking for.. support? How bad is it really? What is it really like? Is there anything I can do to lessen the horror?

(Just as an aside, I've never been abused, sexually or otherwise, and the sexual relationship I have is very healthy and loving. I'm not afraid of my body or ashamed of it in any way, so I don't have any big underlying 'issues' - just... stranger... hand... in my vagina... scraping cells off my CERVIX?? And the possibility that I could have a male doctor doing the examining?? I know that it's all medical and business for a doctor, and that he'd have seen hundreds of vaginas before mine, but I'm young and timid and this scares the daylights out of me. ;.;)

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Sep. 23rd, 2005 @ 01:45 pm Friday, Sept 23
All right, since I should probably start being a "real" mod,

Here is the question of the day:
Two parts:
1. What is your favourite position and why?

2. What position do you want to try, but never have?
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Sep. 22nd, 2005 @ 10:30 am (no subject)
Current Mood: blahblah
Hey. I'm new!

I have another LJ account, but I decided thst I needed an another outlet in order to satisfy my sexual side. I am quite a sexual person. Indeed. I love to have sex with my boyfriend every chance we get.

My question for today is:

My boyfriend loves to have sex with me on top; he likes to see my boobs bouncing abound, or reverse, my butt. The problem is... I don't like it. I don't think that it feels very good and I'm just not good at it. I really want to make him happy and do this for him.

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Sep. 14th, 2005 @ 11:13 am hello everyone!!!
i have a question, and hope you can help. i got a product called AZO cranberry for urinary tract infections. does this only prevent them or will it cure it? i've used a product called uti relief before, and that worked well, but they were all sold out at the drugstore. so i got this shit instead, because i heard cranberries help. anyone know?
thanks in advance!
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Jul. 6th, 2005 @ 10:20 am (no subject)
To the ladies:

Has anyone every had her cervix bruised or injured? I'm trying to judge what the pain may be like. The last time I had sex I wasn't completely "in the mood" and even under the best circumstances S hits the cervix. However, last time he was REALLY into it, and I wasn't do much, so every time on penetration he'd go the length, there would be a "catch" and then he could go a little bit further, although it was slightly painful (for me)

I've never experienced that "catch" before (that's the only way I can describe it, like that momentary pause when you're walking and your sweater catches on a nail) but I'm been sore and experiencing moderate to slightly severe stabs of cramps since Friday. I don't believe I have an infection, just wondering if anyone else has experienced this and how long it took to "heal"
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