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Nov. 25th, 2005 @ 09:26 am Hope everyone had a Happy T-day
I hope everyone is sufficiently stuffed with Holiday foods and is now lazing on the couch :)

Now for my quick little bit:

If you are sexually active -- and I hope most people are -- make it a goal this year to get tested. If you're in a monogamous relationship where ya both started out as virgins, I'm not talking to you, go back to eating your pumpking pie.

For everyone else . . . get tested. Yeah, yeah, it's not the most fun thing in the world, I know, but it's the responsible thing to do. There are so many nasty little bugs out there that are easily treated by a good dose of antibiotics, but if left untreated can lead to serious infertility problems plus just general uckiness (do I NEED to go into what happens if you leave the syph untreated?)

So yeah, start the new year off healthy.

And now for my more entertaining little bit:

Masturbation.

How often do you do it?
What are your thoughts?


Me, two times a week, sometimes more if I'm not getting any sack action with my partner.
I am a huge proponent of masturbation, for several reasons:
1. Safe sex. Safe sex. Safe sex.
2. If you don't know what turns YOU on, how are you supposed to communicate it to a partner.

I don't know too many guys who haven't masturbated, but I'm continually shocked by the number of women I still hear say "Oh GOD no -- it's so icky and . . . gross."

To me, there is nothing icky or gross about it. While many guys can get off in the normal way (up, down, up, down, wash, rinse, repeat) the female orgasm can be a wily and tricky affair. So practice at it, and practice alot.

I think it's a damn shame that Joycelyn Elders, former Surgeon General, actually LOST HER JOB for being a proponent for masturbation.

So let's get it out in the open, try it (if you aren't actually doing it already), and have a little safe fun.
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From:promesasdebella
Date:November 25th, 2005 11:40 pm (UTC)
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Not a damn thing wrong with getting yourself off! I will admit to it in a heartbeat! It's too bad that more women don't admit it.

As for how often...that is a bit difficult. There was a time when I could masturbate several times a week and sometimes as much as 3 times a day. However, in the past year or so I have barely masturbated at all. I am getting back into the swing of things though!!! Finally!

And thoughts??? Jeesh! I thought you were talking fantasies! My thoughts are the first thing, so...