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Dec. 23rd, 2006 @ 07:18 pm 411 on Anal Sex
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Could someone please share their knowledge about anal sex. My husband is very interested in this and the few times that we have tried we were unsuccessful in the sense that I cannot relax enough and it was very uncomfortable.

I am always willing to try new things but in this case I am not understanding how this is suppose to be pleasurable.

Are there certain things that can be done in preparation for anal sex?
What lubes or condoms are recommended?
Are there particular positions that work best?
How can one train their anus to receive?

Any input you could offer would be truly appreciated.
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Date:December 24th, 2006 12:24 am (UTC)
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I would say don't go for full blown anal sex the first time. Start small, have your husband wear some latex gloves and just probe and play with a finger, then two, then three...

You can also try a small butt plug, and then a bigger one.

And just try to relax... take a long hot shower, get him to give you a massage... relax and have fun :)

Oh yah, LOTS of lube!
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Date:December 25th, 2006 06:44 am (UTC)
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